And eleven years later: I strongly gave all their strength the education of children, eager to do it well. But, Lord, my God! I impatient, irritable, I scream! .. How sad this eternal struggle with the kids! Relations between mother and child are determined by the content of the mother's life; they depend on her relationship with her husband, from what was past the woman, if she has other things to do, is by taking care of the children and what they are, how she gets along with itself; a profound mistake and you could even say absurd to see in the child a panacea for all ills. The same conclusion comes and X. Deitch in the work that I have often quoted; exploring different sides of motherhood, it relied on its experience vrachapsihiatra. X. Deutsch greatly appreciated function of motherhood; it is the implementation of this function, in its view, allows a woman to take place completely, but on the condition that the woman makes the choice itself, voluntarily, on their own, sincerely, with all my being wanting it; young women should be in the psychological, moral and financial situation, which would enable it to withstand the load; otherwise the consequences are catastrophic. In particular, criminal advised to have a child as a means to cure women suffering melanholieyili neuropathy; and it will be a disaster for the woman and for the child. Only a balanced woman, healthy, clearly aware of the fact, what responsibility she takes over, can become a "good mother."