The mother, who identifies himself with his daughter, no less despotic; she wants, they have had a profound experience, to go through the youth again; it seems to escape from the past, it saves itself the past; she looks in-law in accordance with the image of her husband, whom she wanted to, but did not find; maintain the attractiveness, soft, it easily gives the imagination, in which the husband of her daughter and partly marry her; with the help of her daughter she wants to satisfy their aspirations to wealth, thirst for success, fame; how many stories written about how a mother by all means "push" his daughter or into prostitution, or in the cinema or theater actress; under the pretext of care and attention to the mother simply assumes the life of the daughter; I was told about these mothers who laid suitors her daughter to bed. However, it is rare that a daughter suffers infinitely such care; as soon as there is a husband or a serious patron, daughter raises a riot and tear the shackles. Mother-in-law, who initially praised, praises his son in law, and then begins to hate him, complaining of human ingratitude, playing the victim; it also becomes a mother-enemy. Anticipating these disappointments, many women without special attention related to their adult children, they pretend to be indifferent, calm, but this little joy, they deprive themselves of it. Every mother should possess a rare combination of generosity and lack of selfish interest to be found in the lives of their children a source of spiritual enrichment, without becoming any despot, nor a martyr.